
Maintaining an enthusiastic and abundant sex life is a tricky thing when you have a herd of tiny unreliable sleepers about the place. Is it even trickier when there's spank-based kinkery involved?

Roleplaying isn't something I've done before. Of course, you could argue that any kind of Dom/sub play is kind of role-playing.

I haven't been gagged before but it is something that I would be willing to explore with a partner that I trusted.

I was astonished to realise recently that my local convenience store stocks a wide variety of 'top shelf' magazines. I'd assumed that sort of thing had died out at the end of the last millennium

Last weekend, I went to my third Smut event, Smut by the Sea in Scarborough

Before the internet, if you wanted to stalk someone, you'd have to actually leave the house. Now it's all there at the click of a button.

The other day, via OKCupid, I was propositioned by a French television presenter who wanted me to give him oral sex.

As I mentioned the other day, I have recently been dabbling in Online Dating. Success has been... varied. It's an ongoing project.

This week,, I signed up with OKCupid and I strongly advise you all to do the same. Even if you're not actively looking to start dating. Even if you're in a committed monogamous relationship. Join up anyway!

I bought An Anthology of Erotic Prose (ed. Derek Parker) some point in my mid-teens. It quickly became very well-thumbed indeed.